Adult Toys

September 6th, 2008 by admin

Contrary to what the older generation or the more Christian purist types in society might think about you as a gay and for using an anal sex toy, the rear end is just another part of our bodies that deserve the loving too. Anal dildos really are not taboo and definitely should not be considered a filthy area or a filthy act. Playing with any kind of dildo or vibrator especially anal dildos and vibrators can be very pleasurable and erotic. You can keep yourself safe and comfortable if you pay attention and practice a few tips.

It is important to use a quality lubricant with your sex toy. Make sure your lubricant is compatible with the material your toy is made from. Remember the anal sphincter is generally a tight area with a lot of sensitive nerve endings and when stimulated by touch or rubbing, the area can become sensitive and you’ll become very sexually aroused. That is why the anus is considered one of the erogenous zones of our bodies.

For all you beginners thinking about incorporating an anal dildo or vibrator into your love making, it is very important to start out with a small slender type of dildo rather than the gigantic type of dildos and vibrators for comfort reasons. Starting off slow is the key issue here.

If you are a bit on the timid side and are not sure if you even want to participate in any kind of anal sex then you probably shouldn’t until you are truly ready. You really need to be open minded to the idea because then you will be more receptive and relaxed. Have a glass of wine or two or try watching some erotic movies together to arouse and peak your curiosity.

This is all apart of love making no matter who you are or what your sexual preference is. Anal sex with any kind of vibrator or dildo is a very personal decision that you have to make. You can even enjoy an anal vibrator with just you and yourself. Now that is pure protection against any kind sexually transmitted disease. You still need to make sure you wash your toy with warm soap and water if you didn’t use a condom.

If you are really nervous about the safety of any kind of anal play during your love making or if you engage in this act all on your own it is important to remember hygiene. I really recommend placing a condom over your toy for this reason. A condom will help protect you and your partner from contracting or passing on any kind of bacteria that live within the rectum to each other. Condoms should always be available for you to use. Whatever your preference is, just use them.

If you are gay and engaging in any kind of group sexual activity where there are multiple partners involved you should replace the condom previously used with a fresh one before inserting your sex toy into any other person. Basically there should be no sharing of condoms. This is a good rule to follow for your own protection. Then you should have little to no worry of contracting any kind of venereal disease or infection.

September 4th, 2008 by admin

Dildos and Dongs are not vibrating sex toys. A dildo allows the user to take full control on how deep or how fast they wish to go.

Choosing a Dildo or Dong: The first choice is the material you want it to be made out of. Jelly and Silicone dildos are flexible, allowing you to guide it internally. Glass dildos are often a cause for concern but are safe. They are made out of medical grade Pyrex and are hypoallergenic. They can also be cooled or heated depending on your mood.

The second choice is selecting the width and length. Width is by far the most important because you can control how far you insert the dildo. If you know that having two fingers in you feels just about right then select a dildo between an inch and an inch and a half in diameter, but if three fingers feels better to you, then pick something slightly larger than an inch and a half in diameter. If you would like to be surer than this, you could first purchase some inexpensive non-silicone dildos in a variety of widths and then choose the width of your silicone purchase based on which felt the most comfortable to you.

The third choice to make is the form you want it to be. Many dildos are abstract in size, shape, texture and color but the choice is totally down to you.

The final choice is the shape. There are dildos of a dolphin shape, curved shape and spherical shape.

Double Enders: Double Ended dildos are similar to dildos but as the name suggests, there are two ends. This is in order for two partners to experience the same pleasure at the same time. Double Ender’s are usually made of soft jelly and come in variety of different styles to make the experience even more pleasurable.

Glass Dildos: Glass dildos provide a very different experience to standard dildos. The main concern people have with glass dildos is the safety aspect. Glass dildos are completely safe and are made of medical grade borosilicate ‘hard’ glass. Professional glassworkers handcraft each dildo. They are carefully annealed to ensure structural integrity and then tested with a Polaris cope to detect any minute flaws that are invisible to the naked eye. They are completely non-toxic and withstand extreme temperatures (can be warmed and cooled) and they withstand physical shock.

Besides this, they are beautiful to look at - the designs and colors are spectacular.

Strap on Dildos: A strap-on dildo (also strap-on, dildo harness) is a dildo designed to be worn. For a man, a strap-on can be worn for penetrative sex. A wide variety of harnesses and dildos are available, with different ways of fitting the wearer, attaching the dildos, stimulating the wearer or the receiver, and all with different features, advantages, and drawbacks for both users.

Realistic Dildos: Like all sex toys, realistic dildos come in a variety of sizes, shapes, textures and skin tones, ranging from 5 inches to 18 inches!! Most realistic dildos are made from silicone, jelly or rubber - textures that closely resemble human skin. Some people really enjoy the heft and natural look of these toys and some prefer the more ‘fun’ nature of other types of dildo.